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Namo tassa Bhagavato Arahato Sammâ Sambuddhassa!
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Life presents a multitude
of problems to deal with almost every day. Having the resources and skills to
skilfully
resolve these problems goes a long way towards ensuring peace and happiness for
all involved. Developing these skills and resources is not an easy task and one
that can be difficult to do without good guidance. This article aims to highlight
some useful techniques for developing these resources and skills and hopes to short-cut
this process, especially for the benefit of young adults.
For a young person who
is facing an obstacle, the first port of call is their family or friends. While
this can be a good approach, this is
not guaranteed to always give the best results, especially when measured against
Buddhist standards of how to respond
skilfully in situations. So at challenging
times it is important to seek
skilful
advice from a
wise person(s).
Family members and friends (especially when they are younger and not as experienced)
are not guaranteed to fall into this category by default. Just because the advisor
is trustworthy and means well, it doesn't necessarily follow that their advice would
also be the best or most
skilful.
The advice given by a
wise person will always be in line
with the Dhamma
teachings and other valuable universal principles such as
truthfulness,
integrity,
generosity,
kindness,
compassion,
etc. A
wise person would not give advice
that would lead anyone to
suffering
or loss. Advice from others would not always fall into this category. It would be
very fortunate to have a
wise person for a family member or
a friend, as one is able to turn to them for guidance and good advice at any moment.
In the absence of such good and wise friends, such friends2 should be
sought out at the earliest opportunity for greater good and happiness.
While being in a position
to get good guidance and advice in invaluable, to be truly successful and happy
in life, the precious quality of wisdom/understanding (paññâ) must be developed. Wisdom3
is the most precious treasure that any being could possess,4 as it allows
the possessor to obtain the best outcome
in any given situation.
How can the great treasure
of wisdom be developed?5 The first requirement is to become established
in giving (dâna) and especially morality
(sîla). Without being established
in these qualities it would be difficult to progress to the next step of concentration
(samâdhi).6 Concentration
is what allows the calming and settling of the usually clouded and unsettled mind
and thus the (mental) seeing of things clearly (insight or
vipassanâ) and seeing how things
really are, not as they are
imagined. When the true nature
of the problem is clearly seen and well-understood, along with its cause (it could
be self-caused); it can be easily resolved.
With meditation techniques
such as awareness of breath (ânâ-pâna-sati) and loving-kindness
(mettâ) the mind can be calmed
down7 to a level where it is devoid of negative forces such as strong
and negative desire (lôbha),
aversion/anger (dôsa)
and confused thinking (môha),
which have a tendency of clouding the mind, distorting perceptions and thinking
as well as retarding and clouding wisdom (paññâ).
When the mind is not gripped by such negative forces, it allows for wisdom to shine
through. Coupling this with clear sightedness (vipassanâ) of the reality of the situation, it would be
possible to solve any kind of problem.8
While family and friends
can be good advisors, their advice may not always be in-line with the
Dhamma. So it is important to
cultivate good and wise friends who would give
skilful and wise advice that aligns
with the Dhamma,
which would ensure happiness for everyone
involved. It is also essential to become established in giving (dâna),
morality (sîla) and concentration (samâdhi) in order to develop the
treasure of wisdom (paññâ)
to be truly successful and happy in life. Meditation techniques such as awareness
of breath (ânâ-pâna-sati) and loving-kindness (mettâ)
can be used to clear the mind of defilements such as negative desire (lôbha),
aversion/anger (dôsa)
and confused thinking (môha),
allowing clear insight (vipassanâ) into the true
nature and cause of problem(s), allowing them to be easily solved.
May you gain the wisdom
to be trouble-free and attain the ultimate ease of
Nibbâna!
Notes
1.
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2.
This is not limited to lay people (e.g. parents, teachers, etc) but can also include
Venerable monks of the Order (Sangha) as well. In fact Venerable
monks can give the best advice in most
cases as they usually have the highest levels of wisdom (paññâ) (the higher the level
of purity of a being, the higher their level of wisdom becomes).
3.
Wisdom and cunning while they seem similar as both involve clever thinking are actually
worlds apart. Wisdom is clever thinking which is also honest, kind and considerate;
whereas cunning is clever thinking that is self-serving, inconsiderate and is devoid
of good qualities. Most beings are unfortunately seen to be acting cunningly and
not wisely. While cunning may seem to work in the short-term, the negative consequences
(vipâka) of any unskilful acts (kamma) done through cunning can
be expected to return at some point through the forces of
kamma-vipâka (cause and effect). Therefore
Buddhists are always encouraged to develop wisdom as opposed to cunning.
Thinking of a clever way
to gain at the expense of another (benefiting oneself/others while harming another)
is a good example of cunning. Thinking of a clever way to gain without causing a
loss to another (benefiting oneself/others without harming another) is a good example
of wise thinking.
4.
See also
Anguttara Nikâya 7.6, Dhana Sutta, Treasure here
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an07/an07.006.than.html
5.
See also
Anguttara Nikâya 8.2, Paññâ Sutta, Discernment (Wisdom) here
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an08/an08.002.than.html
6.
See
Anguttara Nikâya
3.73, Sakka Sutta, To the Sakyan
here
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an03/an03.073.than.html
7.
These meditation techniques are classed as
samatha,
or mind calming techniques.
Samatha
techniques are used to help and develop insight (vipassanâ) into the reality of all
things.
8.
It is also important to be able to think and act wisely ‘on the go’ as and when
problems arise. This is where a situation is assessed, weighed up, thought through
and acted on wisely to resolve effectively and
skilfully; ensuring that no one is
harmed (including oneself) in the process. While this would not be as powerful (this
is the general case and this can vary with an individual’s level of mental development)
as thinking with a very clear mind soon after meditation, it is also an important
skill to develop as there are many times when it is required in daily life. Developing
and using this ability is better than acting without thinking things through at
all.
APPENDIX A: A Practical Approach to Problem Solving by Developing Wisdom – Part
1
1.
When a problem is encountered it is best not to react/respond to it straight away,
if this is safe to do. It is better to let it be, consider and think things through
and determine how to best solve the problem. If the problem requires an urgent response,
then clear the mind of the
five hindrances as far as possible, concentrate
and think things through carefully and formulate a response ‘on the spot’ while
seeking advice from a
wise person where possible.
2.
Become established in the five precepts by uttering the appropriate stanza attentively
if this has not already been done earlier. Refer to
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/ptf/dhamma/sila/pancasila.html and
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/thurunusaviya/message/292
3.
Reflecting of the problem is best done is peace, quite and solitude. When time and
the opportunity permits, find a quiet place where to be at ease, e.g. home, bed
room, study, etc.
4.
Calm the mind of all ideas, opinions, views, likes, dislikes, etc. thought of throughout
the day regarding the problem at hand. Put aside concerns, fears, worries, doubts
and other thinking in relation to the past and the future as much as possible and
bring the mind to the present moment.
5.
Practice the awareness of breath (ânâ-pâna-sati) and/or the loving-kindness
(mettâ) meditations for a short
while until the mind calms down and is clear. At this point the mind should be clear
of the five hindrances of i. strong (and especially
negative) desire, ii. hatred/anger, iii. fear/worry/restlessness, iv. laziness/lethargy
and v. doubts about the path, practice and teachings. For more on the
five hindrances, refer to
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/index-subject.html#nivarana
6.
Now that the mind is calm and clear, think about how the problem can be solved.
Usually by the end of the previous step (5), there could automatically be an idea/understanding
about what to do, however this not always guaranteed and some additional thinking/analysis
maybe required.
7.
If by the end of the previous step (6) there is no solution, this is usually and
indicator that one isn’t experienced enough to deal with and solve the problem.
This is the point at which a
wiser person
should be consulted for further guidance and advice. But even if there is a solution
by the end of step 6, it would
skilful to consult a
wise person
to ensure that it is within the boundaries of the
Dhamma
teachings, will only lead to everyone’s well-being and will not cause harm to anyone.
APPENDIX B: A Practical Approach to Problem Solving by Developing Wisdom – Part
2
1.
Become establish in giving (dâna),
morality (sîla) and concentration (samâdhi).
2.
Clear mind of all major defilements such as strong (and especially unskilful) desire
(lôbha), hatred/aversion/anger
(dôsa), and confused thinking
(môha) and the
five hindrances.
3.
Asses and analyse the situation.
4.
Think, plan and formulate a solution for the problem.
5.
Assess whether the solution(s) from the previous step (4) can be harmful to oneself
and/or others. If it can be harmful, return to the previous step (4), otherwise
proceed to the next step (6).
6.
Implement the plan/solution from step 4 in a
skilful manner by utilizing
skilful
thoughts, words and deeds, thus resolving the problem without causing harm to oneself
and/or others.
7.
Review and learn from the outcomes at the end to see if there are any additional
corrective actions that need to be taken.
Related
Dhamma Articles
1.
Daily Dâna -
On giving and generosity, see
http://www.vihara.org.au/go?to=dailydana
2.
Five Precepts
- Developing virtue through the five precepts, see
http://www.vihara.org.au/go?to=pansil
3.
Mettâ Meditation
- Easy to follow instructions for doing the meditation on loving-kindness, see
http://www.vihara.org.au/go?to=mettamed
4.
Consequences
- About being responsible for our actions (kamma) and their consequences (vipâka),
see
http://www.vihara.org.au/go?to=conseq
5.
Equanimity -
Dealing with the eight characteristics of life, see
http://www.vihara.org.au/go?to=equanimity
6.
Buddhist Positive Thinking
- Positive thinking from a Buddhist perspective, see
http://www.vihara.org.au/go?to=posthink
7.
Mental Purity
- Five ways for subduing mental defilements, see
http://www.vihara.org.au/go?to=vitakkasantana
8.
Four Noble Truths - The essence of Buddhism, see
http://www.vihara.org.au/go?to=fourtruths
9.
Noble Eightfold Path
- The path for ending stress and suffering, see
http://www.vihara.org.au/go?to=noblepath
Related Suttas (Discourses)
1.
Anguttara Nikâya 4.35, Vassakara Sutta, With Vassakara, see
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an04/an04.035.than.html
2.
Anguttara Nikâya 4.192, Thana Sutta, Traits, see
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an04/an04.192.than.html
3.
Anguttara Nikâya 3.2, Lakkhana Sutta, Characterized (by Action), see
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an03/an03.002.than.html
4.
Udâna 6.2, Jatila Sutta, Ascetics, see
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/kn/ud/ud.6.02.than.html
5.
Anguttara Nikâya 7.6, Dhana Sutta, Treasure, see
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an07/an07.006.than.html
6.
Anguttara Nikâya 8.2, Paññâ Sutta, Discernment (Wisdom), see
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an08/an08.002.than.html
7.
Anguttara Nikâya 3.73, Sakka Sutta, To the Sakyan, see
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an03/an03.073.than.html
Online Resources
1.
AccessToInsight.org
here http://www.accesstoinsight.org
2.
Mettanet.org
here
http://www.mettanet.org
3.
What-Buddha-Said.net
here
http://what-buddha-said.net
4.
What-Buddha-Taught.net here
http://what-buddha-taught.net
5.
SuttaReadings.net here
http://www.suttareadings.net
6.
Buddhanet.net
here
http://www.buddhanet.net
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